It has often been said that goodbyes are not easy. As this is the last entry of Everyday Idealists, we wish to not just bid goodbye. Rather, we wish that you continue to look for avenues of inspiration. We wish that you continue to challenge yourselves to grow and to be Everyday Idealists.

You do not need to be big to be one, always remember that. To be an Everyday Idealist basically means to be one who believes much in one idea or ideal in his/her life and strive to live it out. We have showcased several examples of Everyday Idealists whether they be passionate about the arts or music, or whether they strive to live out in service. Do not be intimidated, though. All Everyday Idealists do not start on top, or they don’t start big right away. All Everyday Idealists start from within, really... from their innermost sincerity to themselves and to their beliefs in life

Seek out to what it is you truly believe in. What forms you, what wakes you up every morning, what is it that really stirs you. Learn more about yourself and how your idea or your ideal can truly be incorporated to your life. Learn more on your surroundings and how they affect your life. Live out your ideas and ideals. Do not just settle for them to remain in your thoughts. Live them out! Lastly, influence others to take part of your ideas and ideals. As you live out what it is you truly believe in, make small changes within your community to better it.

Perhaps that is all that we are left to say. It has been a great journey with all of you viewers, and as we bid goodbye, we do wish you always keep this in mind:

Seek to learn. Learn to live. Live to change.



Sincerely,
Dominic, Apple, Macky



Why EI Chose Benjo Beringuela

Having known him for years, one of Everyday Idealist’s editors, Apple Raperoga, has been witness to how Benjo Beringuela developed his photography skills from being merely a hobby into being professional. Unlike usual photographers, Benjo is known for his knack at taking casual but timely candid shots, which assures that each photo is unique from everything else.

This week, the spotlight is on Benjo Beringuela, 4 BS Communications Technology Managemeny. Student. Photographer. Everyday Idealist.

What Captured His Heart

This must probably one of the easiest and lightest, but nevertheless inspiring inerviews EI has ever had. First, Benjo begins by telling us his story about how he started liking photography. Back in high school, flashy and precise DSLRs were not yet very popular, and thus, he had to rely on a trusty digital camera. “Nagstart ako nung fourth year. Wala pa akong DSLR nun, pero I got hooked with a digicam. I started using it for projects, then ayun. Nacarry ko na until college.”

According to Benjo, it was around his second year of college that he got his own DSLR, and that time, he would carry it around taking pictures of random school days and activities. Later on, he volunteered as an event photographer for campus programs and events (such as OrSem, some Ateneo org parties, or special requests for his friends) And now, he’s been taking pictures for bigtime names such as The Guidon, UAAP events, and even for an interview with former Chief Justice Renato Corona. Benjo has also taken his hobby into a serious career, as he is now part of the Shutter Panda Photography team.


The Picture-perfect Conviction

“Feeling ko, never na malalaos ang photography so I guess maganda kung masprespread pa ‘yun.” According to Benjo, one of the features of photography that he likes so much, is its ability to store memories and events, which would probably never happen the same way again. He even said that he loves the fact that pictures can be printed and carried around, much like having a hard copy of a memory with you. However, since most people have no more time now, digital and online copies of photographs would suffice.

“Sana rin hindi maging fixed yung tao sa tinuturo ng photography lessons. I think it’s better to go out of the box.” Benjo tells. Our Everyday Idealist is all about uniqueness and originality. He belives that each photographer has something to bring to the table, and has a certain corresponding style, to which a person is to be known for. For him, when it comes to style, no one should and could ever copy you, for that is exactly who you are. And when asked what his style is, he answers:

“Mas gusto ko talaga ang candid, kasi mas raw ‘yung emotion. In a way, I look for pegs. Then I apply my own style to it, in a way na maging unique at akin talaga siya.” Benjo tells that his creativity is kept going through the creativity of other people as well. He continues to be inspired by the good works for fellow photographers. But of course, he doesn’t let this get in the way of his style. 


What Inspires him

Photography, as a hobby and as a profession, is truly a fun and fulfilling job. However, what most pople don’t know is that this could be very exhausting and draining. So, when asked about what keeps Benjo on his toes when it comes to his career, he answers: “’Yung mga tao na wala pang trabaho pero sikat na.” Benjo looks up to people who are very dedicated to their career, and have worked very hard to achieve it.  “Hindi naman sa sikat, pero yung successful na in terms of their art”

He also tells us, that if you really want to pursue photography, it is important that you have people with you, belonging to the same craft, such that you can act as each other’s support system. For him, his fellow student photographers have given him great help and inspiration, not only that they team up to cover the same events and cater to the same contacts, but also that they are the ones who are able to talk during their free time, schedule photowalks, and just share the common conviction.


 Final Tips

“Wag kang gagaya. Never kang gagaya.” If there’s a plagiarism guard in the photography scene, it must be Benjo Beringuela. But for him, this is because he believes that each person really has something to offer, and one need not copy another person’s work. As an advocate of candid shooting, he also believes that each moment is unique, precious, and should not be allowed to just slip away.

“Don’t stop shooting, kahit sobrang pagod ka na. Always bring your camera, lalo na kung nagtraravel ka. Kasi kahit hindi ka nagplan ng shoot, may makikita kang maganda. So kung di mo dala yung camera mo, sayang ‘yung scene, or sayang ‘yung tao.”

Finally, when we asked him why he continues to strive hard in his potography career, “Wala lang. Feeling ko kung okay ka sa art mo, masaya ‘yung buhay. Ang cheesy.”


Benjo Beringuela.
Student.
Photographer.
Everyday Idealist.








Why EI Chose Matec Villanueva 

From an outsider’s perspective, one might thank that someone in the world of Advertising and all that is Marketing Communications, is just subjected to her/his clients. One might think that just because one works for an advertising agency, s/he will always just be a mere follower of what her/his clients demands. Perhaps it is more of a grey matter than a black and white when it comes to Matec Villanueva.

Matec Villanueva is currently the Chairperson of Publicis-Manila being one of the most recognized agencies by different companies here in the Philippines. Everyday Idealists have decided to choose Mrs. Villanueva as she has recently been the speaker for this school year’s Leadership Convergence seminar hosted by the Leadership and Strategy Department of the School of Management

Truths About Leadership 


Matec, in her very easy-going personality and in much enthusiasm discusses how she learned of leadership throughout the years. She said that she has learned leadership from the people in her family, from the communities she belongs to, from the people in the schools she has attended, from the people she was worked with and continue to work with, from people in her life and, perhaps jokingly, from doing the talk numerous times.

She then goes on into discussing her Three Truths About Leadership. First, she said that there should be an existing symbiotic relationship between leaders and followers. What she meant is that there should be a good relationship between the follower and the leader. A relationship like that means that no one is suffering while the other is benefitting from the other’s misery. Second, in order to have a strong organization, it’s not enough to have strong leaders, an organization must also have strong followers. It really makes sense considering what is a good leader if the followers are not motivated? And her third and last truth states that “leaders and followers mirror each other”. Matec mentions how followers would have the same ideals as that of their leaders, and that leader and followers really don’t have much dissonance.

Secrets of Leadership 

Matec mentions that one must be a good follower first to be a good leader. She then proceeds into discussing her “3 Secrets of Leadership”. She starts saying that first of all, followers get things done. Great followers, for her are goal driven. Great followers do not just blindly follow what their leaders tell them. She mentions that followers contribute substance and not just presence. An example would be not just being in a meeting and listen the whole time, but also to contribute something into the discussion. Last, she said that followers create their own jobs, they have initiative—they do not wait to be told [what to do].

Second, great followers are value-driven. Followers possess the right values, and they know how to empathize. Great followers also know that trust is earned. Lastly, great followers know that loyalty to the group and its cause is required. The last point means that one knows how important it is to be committed to the group he or she belongs to because that component would really drive the follower to do his or her best in all that he or she does.

Last secret is that great followers communicate. She said that, “strong groups happen with a network of stable relationships among its members” and she also mentioned, “stable relationships happen when clear and open communications exist”. She drove the point that communication is really needed but she pointed out it is not just any type of communication, rather, a good communication. She mentioned that good communication is not just the message sender properly relaying a message, more importantly, the receiver must have a good understanding of the message.




Why EI Chose Gigi De Villa

Through our Theology and Philosophy classes, we were all taught about the importance of relating to the marginalized, and the preferential option for the poor. As Ateneans, more so, we have always been called to be men and women for tohes. Everyay Idealists found the perfect personification of these values in Ms. Gigi De Villa, a senior taking up Management Economics and Development Management, who has been very active and all out in her support for the marginalized sector. It was our first time finding someone with such great passion and commitment to giving voice to those who have none.


Hope in Everyone

Gigi De Villa begins the interview right on by stating her greatest conviction. By the way she talks, one can really feel the level of passion she has towards her commitment. “Malapit sa puso ko ang mga marhinalisadong komunidad tulad ng mga magsasaka at mga katutubo; at para sa akin gusto ko sana maging bahagi ng pag-uplift ng dignity nila as human person, gusto ko na matulungan silang mangarap ulit.” [Those who are in the marginalized communities are very close to my heart, like the local farmers and the indigenous people, and I want to take part in uplifting their dignity as a human person, I want to help them dream again.]

Gigi explains how she can’t stand just being a witness to the state of helplessness and hopelessness that these people are currently in, and that for her, she has to take action and initiative for the movement that would rekindle in these people hope, confidence and inspiration. As one of her steps in accomplishing this mission, she envisions herself serving at the Jesuit Volunteers Philippines (JVP), and/or working for government institutions such as the DILG (Department of the Interior and Local Government) or the  DepEd (Department of Education), that would help in promoting the rights of these people.


Walo at Saka Tatlong Dumagat

Gigi explained to Everyday Idealists interesting stories of how she got inspired to fight for the marginalized. First of these was her story on how she felt attachment to the indigenous people.

According to her, it all started through a documentary she watched, wherein aetas were being misled by people as they travel by directing them to wrong buses, just because they know that these people are unable to read. Gigi shared how disappointed and sorry she felt for the misery of the aetas, who have been taken advantage of through their weaknesses.

This cruel reality was strengthened to her, through a lecture of her Theology professor, about a certain indigenous group called the “Dumagats”. The story tells of how, upon the arrival of other people, the Dumagats would say “O nandito na mga tao” [Oh, the humans have arrived]. The students were astounded of how they were received. A Dumagat then explained that this is because whenever they would ride a jeepney, he would hear a person, not belonging to their group, would say, “Walo at saka tatlong Dumagat” [Eight, and 3 Dumagats], as he pays. The Dumagats have been judged as different, and for Gigi, she can’t deny how angered she was upon hearing how these people have been treated.  “Alam ko na hindi naman dapat ganoon ang pagtrato sa kanila. For me, isa silang gem ng Philippine Society at dapat na alagaan natin sila.” [I know that they shouldn’t be treated that way. For me, they are gems of the Philippine Society, and they should be taken good care of.]


The CARPer Campaign

The second story Gigi shared was that of how she was inspired to work towards the rights of poor local farmers. She traces back her devotion to this cause, way back when she was still in freshman year. Early on, she has been exposed to the issues and dialogues held reharding the matter. In fact, she even cut her InTACT class, just to be able to march along with these farmers and the people who share the same sentiments with her. According to her, it was through this experience that she realized the importance of these poor local farmers, and how their rights were deeply underpromoted.

“Nakita ko doon na, mahalagang bahagi sila ng society natin and yet, hindi sila mapahalagahan. Ang laki ng kontribusyon nila, pero ito yung nararanasan nila.” [I saw how they are really essential to the society, yet they are not given importance. They offer great contributions, but they suffer that way.] These farmers, are those who, albeit their many decades of tenure, have not been granted title to their lands. Gigi expressed how she felt injustice upon the realization that these people have been exerting much effort, and yet, they have not been fairly compensated.

It was also through this event that she was able to meet people who are passionate about fighting for the rights of the underpivileged as well. Gigi tells the story of Karen, also an advocate of these local farmers, who died fighting for their rights. According to Gigi, she was deeply inspired by the conviction of this person. “Bakit ako di ko kayang subukan lumaban? Given na ako, naprovide ako with Ateneo education so, sana ako din maglakas loob para sa kanila.” [Why don’t I try to fight for them as well? I have been given an Ateneo education, so ideally, I should also have courage to stand up for them.]


The Driving Force

Gigi shares, that even though these issues that she fights for might seem very heavy and controversial, at the end of the day, these are the same things that drive her to get going with life, most especially in her academics and the path she’s taking.

“Yun ang nagiging drive ko para mag aral. Pag nag-aral ako ng mabuti, mas mapapaglingkuran ko sila. Yun ang nagpapabangon sa akin sa umaga. Pag hellweek na and everything, alalahanin ko lang na ang lahat ng ito ay para sa kanila, na kung maging magaling ako na Atenista, sila rin maeempower ko rin sila in the long run.” [It’s what drives me to study hard. Because if I do well, I can serve them better. That’s what keeps me up everyday. Whether it’s hell week and everything comes tushing through, I just remember that all of these is for them. And if I’m a good Atenean, I can empower them as well in the long run].


Why EI Chose the Late Senator, Sen. Jesse M. Robredo

In light of recent events, it is worth noting that the late Senator Jesse M. Robredo has done so much in serving his people. With all talk and being all over the newspapers and news lately, one might already know more or less why the death of one of the leaders of this nation is such a great loss for our country.    Everyday Idealists has decided to share his commencement speech for the graduating batch of 2003 of Ateneo, which really serves so much of an inspiration.

Senator Jesse M. Rebredo's Commencement Speech


FOLLOW YOUR HEART; PURSUE YOUR DREAM
BY JESSE M. ROBREDO
CITY MAYOR, NAGA CITY

Reverend Fr. Ben Nebres,
Distinguished Members of the Board of Trustees,
Reverend Fathers of the Society of Jesus,My Dear Graduates,
My Dear Parents,
Ladies and gentlemen,
Good Afternoon.

I am deeply honored to be your Commencement Speaker today.


I must confess I do not consider myself prominent enough to merit the invitation. I must also confess that I come from that other equally distinguished school along Taft Avenue. Nevertheless, like I always do when called upon, I will give it my best shot.

Humbly I stand before you today. Humbly I relish at the thought that perhaps one of the reasons why you have chosen me as your Commencement Speaker is that you want me to share with you the good things that we have accomplished in Naga City.


You, my dear graduates, might wonder why after six years in the private sector with a lucrative job, I finally decided to involve myself in local governance, which is otherwise known as the complex world of politics.


It is not common that we find young men and women, at their early stage, stake their future in politics. The old fashion way is for older or more seasoned men, especially those who have been successful in their profession and have nothing more to prove, to indulge in politics as a rewarding refuge. In my case, I simply wanted to go home and see what I can share to the city of my birth.

A STRONG HEART


Fifteen years ago, at age 29, when I first became Mayor of Naga, what I got into was a city in shambles.

The city had a huge budgetary deficit; City Hall employees were underpaid, their morale was low; and with a city council of ten members, only three of them belonged to my party.

I had a weak mandate, made even weaker by a system of political patronage. But I did not have an equally weak heart. I knew in my mind the kind of governance we would pursue. The options were clear. We either provide a leadership that was exclusive and authoritative or a leadership that was inclusive and consultative ----- a leadership that imposes its will on its constituency or a leadership that encourages people participation and engagement.


We understood that we did not have the monopoly of wisdom. We felt that we should know when to lead and when to be led.


We chose to take the side of our constituency. We fully wagered our political future on their response. To secure their confidence, we tackled long-standing problems that beset the city --- vice, urban blight, red tape, graft and corruption, and poor tax collection. We organized and reached out to all the sectors of the city --- the sidewalk vendors, drivers, urban poor, farmers, professional and business circles, non-government organizations and religious groups.

PARTICIPATORY GOVERNANCE


We viewed the poor, of which Naga had plenty, as our partners and assets. We launched Kaantabay sa Kauswagan (Partners in Deveopment) Program which so far provided security of tenure to 5,000 squatter families. Today, they are proud owners of homelots in neighborhoods that speak of their dignity as empowered citizens of the city. Working with the poor, we resolved long-standing land tenure problems dating back to the 1950s. Such was our success that no less than the United Nations Center for Human Settlements made our program a model in the Habitat II Conference in Turkey in 1996.

Viewing our constituency as our partner and asset, we enacted a People Empowerment Ordinance, the first of its kind in the country, which instituted the Naga City People’s Council. This Council represents over a hundred non-government and people’s organizations who are empowerd to propose legislations and vote at the committee level of the city council.

Today we engage ourselves in a program that looks at every Nagueno as the focal point of what government enterprise is all about. We call it the i-Governance Program. It not only recognizes the citizen’s right to know but also encourages them to engage their government. It has two basic tools: the Naga City Citizen’s Charter, the first of its kind in the country and the naga.gov.ph website. These tools are both designed to empower the citizen by promoting transparency and accountability. Because of transparent governance and accessibility of information, construction of roads and purchases of supplies and medicines cost much less in Naga City than government standards.

DRAMATIC REBOUND

The People Empowerment Ordinance has resulted to a dramatic rebound for the City of Naga. By the end of my third term as city mayor in 1998, we have regained our stature as the premier city of the Bicol Region.

The rebound was described by Asiaweek Magazine as “more institutional than physical” even as it acclaimed Naga City as one of the 4 Most Improved Cities in Asia in 1999. For similar reasons, Naga City was presented the Dubai-UNCHS International Award for the 10 World’s Best Practices in Urban Governance and for its Participatory Planning Initiatives in 1998.

CHANGING PARADIGMS

Why am I relating to you all these, my dear graduates?

It is because in some Asian countries and even in our beloved country, people say that democratic principles cannot work, and that the Oriental model of “ruling with a hard hand” is the call of the hour.

We disagree. Our experience in Naga is our best argument against the traditional and authoritative ways in the management of people and governance.

Our experience, too, proves that our people are our best resource and our best hope. Our experience, and that of many others, have shown that if we can not do it at the national level, we can begin at the local level. Collectively, successful local governments, driven by constituencies who are well-informed, constructively engaged, and willing to share the burden of community building, can build our country.

Despite all our problems, I know we shall overcome. It just might be a matter of changing course. It just might be a matter of leading from the bottom rather than being herded by the top.

Again, why am I relating to you all these, my dear graduates?

It is because many of you will be leaders of our country someday, or may even become President of this Republic. But is it not ironic that while many of our leaders have succeeded in achieving their personal goals, the country has lagged behind? Maybe it is because they have failed to make heroes out of the ordinary Filipino. Maybe it is because they have relied solely on their own capacities, rather than on the contributions of the ordinary people they are responsible for.

MAKING HEROES OUT OF THE ORDINARY

Not all of you will graduate with honors or with distinctions. Only a few --- a very few --- will be privileged to receive medals and honors. But all of you tonight will come up this stage and be honored with an Ateneo diploma.
Not that I am giving less importance to the honor graduates. We know that they have significant roles to play. But that I would like to focus more on the majority of the graduates this year. I was just like one of you when I graduated from college in 1980. To you, I address my experience in Naga City --- for it is our kind, the ordinary, regular kid on the bloc, who made the City of Naga rise over its difficulties.

Our political history has shown that we have put the burden of running this country to our “best” people for too long. And yet the gap between the rich and the poor has grown wider. For this country to succeeed, we need to make heroes of the ordinary people. We need to make heroes of ourselves.

I must say that the ordinary employees and constituency have made the success of Naga possible. In Naga City, we have a woman streetsweeper, who held on to her broom for twenty years. Literally, she had swept every square inch of the city’s business district. But through sheer determination, she was able to finish her secondary studies in a night school and graduated, at 54, with a bachelor’s degree, some 8 years after her own daughters had theirs. To her the City of Naga conferred the Mayoral Award for becoming an inspiration to ordinary citizens, one who despite overwhelming odds, has risen above them. Today her broom has become a diploma. The woman was not an honor graduate --- but an ordinary citizen, struggling to make life better for her family.

Why am I relating this to you, my dear graduates, and my dear ladies and gentlemen?

It is because the world today lacks the values that used to mould the disposition and the character of the ordinary citizen.

The world today, despite the advances in science and technology, has yet to learn about how to live, what to do, and how to be. As one tired and retired government employee remarked, “One learns many things when one gets to be my age. But one has to unlearn many more things that one has gathered with age.”

In pre-school, as bestseller writer Robert Fulghum observed, we used to be taught these: “Share everything. Play fair. Do not cheat. Don’t hit people. Put things back where you find them. Clean up your own mess. Don’t take things that aren’t yours … When you go out into the world, hold hands and stick together.”

How sad ---after ten years in basic education and four years in higher education -- we seem to have forgotten the basic tenets learned in pre-school.

When graduates go out into the world of business or politics or entertainment or government service, will they still “share everything”, “play fair”, “put things back where they find them”, and “clean their own mess”?

Our experience in governance in Naga City is nothing but our personal encounter with the necessity of returning to the basic governance --- a return to the essential meaning of service --- a return to what is simple and practical --- a return to the values that our forefathers taught us: the value of honesty, hard work, of fairness and most all the holy fear of a just God.

SMALL FISH IN A BIG POND

This Address will not be complete without venturing to answer the question as to where will you go from here.
Should you choose to be a big fish in a small pond, or a small fish in a big pond? Whatever your doubts are, follow your heart. When I left San Miguel Corporation, in 1986, I knew that serving home was where my heart was. I must say that desire and commitment far outweigh knowledge and skill. The latter can be learned. Without the former, your life’s work will be a profession and not a vocation. Find your own niche. Change careers if you must. But make sure you succeeed.

You must always remember that you can not give what you do not have. Measure success in terms of how pleased you are with what you have done and not as to how people define it, with its attendant perks.

Later on in life, you will realize that it is neither your successes nor your conquests that will give you satisfaction. It is your contribution that really matters – paying back what you owe the community that nurtured you.

THE CHILD IN US

Let me end by narrating to you the conversations I had with Grade 6 pupils of a public school in Panicuason, a mountain barangay in Naga City, some four years ago.

Some of these children had to walk 3 to 4 kilometers just to attend school. I asked them what their ambitions in life were?

A boy said he wanted to be a doctor because there was no doctor in the barangay. A girl said he wanted to be a teacher so that she would make sure that all the children in her barangay would go to school. Another boy said he wanted to be an engineer so he could improve the roads and provide irrigation systems for the farmers.

Like all of us, they too wanted to be somebody someday. But despite the deprivations and difficulties, they were all for a noble purpose – to be of service to others. Not one of them said that it was for fame, money or power. They were so young, yet they know what was good for their community and for others.

As you leave your beloved Alma Mater and pursue your own dreams, do not forget the child in you. Keep in your hearts always the Ateneo idealism of being men and women for others. Hold on to it. I am certain you will do no wrong if you keep that idealism as your guiding light.

Congratulations.